Dec 12, 2008

Exploring Beijing

After a full night's sleep, we awoke around 6 AM ready to go. We had breakfast in the hotel restaurant. I enjoyed a nice meal of fried eggs, bacon, coffee and an apple. Angela went with the Muslim noodles, black pickled eggs, Chinese dumplings and wontons. To each his own I guess.

After breakfast and a check-in with grandpa via Skype, we met the rest of our large group in the hotel lobby to head out for a day of touring in Beijing. With coats zipped and hats and gloves donned, we left on two buses for Tienanmen Square. On the ride to our destination we introduced ourselves to several of the other families. It seems like most of them are like us and have returned for a second child although there were a few making the trip for the first time. We have one dad who traveled alone as well as one mom. We have someone who brought grandma along and we have a couple families who brought all the kids as well.

Tienanmen Square was nice although at times I thought we were more a sight for other tourists than the square was for us. When a professional photographer took a picture of our group, we had other tourists taking shots of us as well. In addition, there were several peddlers trying to sell their wares everywhere we went. If you even glanced at the item in their hands, they would follow you mercilessly trying to get you to buy what they had to offer. What they had was the typical "made in China" trinkets. A Mao Tse Tung wristwatch, a fanciful chopsticks set, a paper back book explaining the history of Tienanmen Square, etc. Some picked out those of us who were without hats or gloves and tried to make a deal on an Olympics wool hat or some North Face gloves. None could explain why they were selling wool caps for the summer Olympics or which child sewed on the obviously fake North Face logo to the cheap mittens. I told Angela that tomorrow I was going to try to hawk our unopened bottled water to the Chinese peddlers. Maybe I could get a good trade out of it!

Considering we are just a couple of hillbillies from the Carolinas, we spent more time gawking at the frozen solid river than we did at the picture of Chairman Mao. We also tried to get a shot of one of the soldiers, but they were rather standoffish and the best we could do was get a picture of them after they had passed. Unfortuately some high ranking officials must have chosen today to do some sight-seeing of their own as many parts of the Forbidden City were forbidden to us. We wound up walking through the open air areas only. We did get to pass the Toilet Lounge which garnered a 4-star rating though! It was one of the highlights of the trip.

After wrapping up our tour, we headed out the North side of the city to get back on the buses to get some lunch. Apparently our bus cut off another bus in the loading area which created a scuffle between a traffic warden and the other bus driver. We innocently climbed aboard as the two bickered back and forth. I imagine they were still arguing as another bus replaced us to load his passengers and keep the irate driver gridlocked!

Lunch was dim-sum style with several group members sharing a table with a large lazy-susan in the center for sharing several dishes. We all started with jasmine tea but once the local beer was placed on the table, our group became quite "friendly." We were only one of five tables in our group, but our table polished off maybe a dozen liters of beer much to the humor of the waiters. At 10RMB per bottle (about $1.50), I thought it was worth the expense.

Our favorite item on the menu was the lemon duck. Itseemed to be lightly fried with a hint of sweetness and a tangy, citrus flavor. In addition to the duck, there was eggplant, pork and carrots, seasoned Chinese cabbage, a soup with something that looked like leaves, but had the consistency of raw oysters, and a dish with green peppers and a wormy-looking kind of meat. Angela and I tasted everything and were contentedly stuffed by the end of the meal.

After lunch we headed for the silk factory. On our last trip to China, we were guided through a pearl factory where we were encouraged to buy from a myriad of pearl products. Apparently Beijing has a similar deal with the tourism industry to guilt us into considering silk items. To be honest, the brief tour of how silk is processed (those are cocoons being "harvested" in the picture) was quite interesting. I actually liked the silk comforters they were showing us, but had no good way to get a queen-size silk comforter into our packed suitcases back at the hotel so we left empty handed.

Next, we headed to Hutong Village which apparently was a inside look into how the average Beijing resident lived. We boarded rickshaws and had the drivers take us on a tour of the back roads. I was concerned about the old man who was forced to drag my big frame around on the back of his bike, but he did exceptionally well and managed to scare me several times as he successfully played "chicken" with local motorists. Halfway through the ride, we stopped to enter a local resident's home. It consisted of a cement-walled main living space of about 10x20 square feet, an adjoining bedroom at about half that size, and a kitchen that resembled my laundry room. The retired couple that lived there had a fish tank, a small color TV, and a stove that looked like it survived World War II. The old couple claimed it was one of the finest homes in the area. In America, the place would have been demolished long ago and been declared unsafe for living!

We were originally scheduled to see an acrobatic show after that, but I think most of us were mentally and physically drained by that point. We decided to put the show off until tomorrow following a trip to the Great Wall and another tourist trap -- the jade factory.

CCAI is fantastic in the way they take care of us while in China. I would highly recommend them to anyone considering a China adoption. My biggest gripe with the guides is that I believe they (and the rest of China) have a false understanding of the wealth of those of us who come to their homeland to adopt their girls. I suppose they base their flawed concept on the fact that we spend so much on travel expenses and adoption fees. They apparently think we grow money trees in our back yards and catch gold in buckets out back as it falls from the sky! Everywhere we go, people flock to us to sell their wares, beg for coins or sell exquisite merchandise. While we may be rich by Chinese standards, I believe I barely qualify as middle class back home. I dislike being put in the situation of being guilted into buying something simply because of the country I live in. In any event, we will play our part tomorrow in the jade factory and put up with the beggars if that's what it takes to bring Leah home.

Dec 11, 2008

Harmonious Beijing

Money wasn't pouring in quite as fast as we had hoped so we trashed the decoder ring idea. (You can decode the previous entry's title by substituting letters for numbers (A=1, B=2, C=3...).

Our journey began at 7:30 Wednesday morning. Scott Bruno graciously (was) volunteered to provide personal taxi service to the Charlotte airport. We started our trip off right by ignoring the suggestions to arrive at the airport 2 hours early for international flights. That turned out to be a good idea since our flight to DC was delayed for just over an hour. Boarding began just as we were trying to decide whether to look for alternate flights.

We arrived at Dulles with plenty of time to get to our connecting flight which thankfully was in the same terminal. The flight was overbooked and we were last in line, but we managed to get seats, although they were not together. We decided getting to China to adopt Leah was more important than sitting together on the plane so we took what we were given without fuss.

If lounging on a Caribbean beach sipping cocktails is a 0 and being drawn and quartered is a 10 on a pain scale, I would rate a fourteen hour trip in coach as a solid 6.5. If you don't believe me, I have developed a way for you to experience the trip without leaving home:

1) Empty your refrigerator of everything (shelves included).
2) Place a small microwave on the fridge floor.
3) Add two frozen meals, a pack of Ramen noodles, and 2 Cokes in the fridge.
4) Place a vacuum cleaner in the fridge.
5) Place a chair in the fridge and sit down.
6) Close the refrigerator door and turn on the vacuum cleaner.
7) Sit in the chair for fourteen hours straight. You may microwave one meal after two hours and the second 13 hours into your adventure.
8) If you can do all of the above during an earthquake you'll have a fair replica of the trip!

Sleep was spotty though out the overseas flight that once again took us into the northern tip of Canada, north of Alaska, and then down through Siberia and Mongolia before touching down in Beijing. I remember thinking when the pilot told us we were 30 minutes outside Beijing how pretty the blue sky was. That was before we began our descent. Once on the tarmac, we tried to determine if the gray, overcast sky was smog or fog. Our guide seemed to suggest that it was a little of both.

After all the families were assembled in the terminal, we took a bus ride through heavy traffic (the DC morning commute pales in comparison) to get to the hotel. We arrived at the Downtown Holiday Inn around 5:30 PM Thursday (4:30 AM EST). By about 6:30 we had our bags brought to our rooms and were ready to set out to find something to eat. Note that up to this point I have foolishly hoped to stick to a "no flour, no sugar" menu on this trip. I ate VERY sparingly on the plane to adhere to my diet so I was famished once in Beijing. For our first night out on the town, we opted for Sizzler. An 8 oz New York strip with a side salad and a glass of mineral water for about $24. I think I'll be dropping the original plan and going with the (cheap) fried dumplings for breakfast!

Our guide, Barbara, explained to us during the bus trip how the Chinese government was so incredible for being able to control the weather and the flowers' blooming cycle during the Olympics. Apparently they were able to sprinkle "magic Chinese dust" in the sky to keep it from raining during the opening ceremonies, and managed to keep the local flora in bloom long after their normal cycle. She sounded quite enamored while Angela and I just rolled our eyes. It's interesting to see how a story can be seen through two different sets of eyes.

We spend the next two days touring Beijing before flying to Zhengzhou on Sunday morning. Tomorrow will be spent touring Tienanmen Square and the Forbidden City. Saturday will include a trip to the Great Wall and a chance to see some of the Olympic architecture. We'll be sure to post pictures of our outings.

Overall, we're glad to be in China safe and sound. We are both extremely tired, and Angela is already snoozing on the bed at 8 PM. Several families once again brought children with them. Although there would have been many good reasons to bring the boys with us, I don't think I could have dealt with them on a day like today when the travel had me completely worn out. We are very glad to have my parents available to watch the boys while we are overseas. Keep us in your prayers -- especially Angela who has to deal with all the stresses I am dealing with in addition to dealing with ME!

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Due to strict governmental controls in China and the anticipated heavy traffic we expect to see on this site over the next few days, we have decided to implement a special code for our blog entries. You can get a decoder ring from Red-Brown Industries for 70RMB (made in China) to read the title and future entries.

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Dec 7, 2008

Presenting Leah

Previously I posted a picture of Leah that we received last summer around the time of her first birthday. I have joked with people that is an "institutional" photo that make Leah look a bit mean. Granted, the paperwork suggests she has a stubborn streak, but I believe she is much nicer than that picture on the black couch leads us to believe.

But never fear! I have finally found the newest pictures we have which make her look much more like the adorable daughter she is. Mary Bruno has already offered us more clothes than we have room to take, but if the pictures are any indication, Leah will be happy to take Mary's hand-me-downs for cute hats as well!

Dec 6, 2008

When And Where


So you'll know what's happening and what's coming up, I'll share an edited version of our itinerary:

12/10 - Leave US for Beijing.
12/11 - Arrive in Beijing. Spend a couple days getting accustomed to the time change and touring.
12/14 - Arrive in Zhengzhou.
12/15 - Gotcha Day! Welcome to the family, Leah.
12/16 - Finalize adoption. Ya Jiao Dang becomes Leah Yajiao Smith.
12/20 - Leave for Guangzhou.
12/22 - Leah's physical exam.
12/24 - Go to US Consulate to take the oath.
12/25 - Get up before the crack of dawn to begin an incredibly long day. But we'll be in Charlotte before it ends. :)